Carmel waves goodbye after 14 years keeping kids safe

After 14 years of dedicated service, Cowes Primary School crossing supervisor Carmel is stepping away from the role that has made her a familiar and much-loved figure in the community.

Each school day, in rain, hail or shine, Carmel has stood proudly on Settlement Road, ensuring the safe passage of hundreds of students and families.

But for Carmel, the role has always been about far more than traffic control.

"I started after retiring from security, where I worked for 35 years. I was just looking for something to do," she said.

What she found instead was a deep connection with the children and families of Cowes.

"What I love most is the children. People talk about the youth of today being challenging, but I find primary school kids very respectful. I'm really going to miss them."

Over the years, Carmel has become more than just a crossing supervisor, she's been a steady presence, a friendly face, and at times, a quiet source of encouragement.

She recalls one student at the start of this year who was struggling to settle into a new grade.

"It was only the second day and he wasn't happy. I said, 'goodness, you've got to give it more of a go.' He's settled now and seems quite happy."

It's these small, everyday interactions that Carmel treasures most.

"You get to know the kids, and even some of the parents. It's always nice to have a quick chat when there's time."

Her role hasn't been without its challenges. Carmel admits there have been some close calls over the years.

"I've nearly been hit by a car a couple of times," she said.

"Driver awareness has improved, but some still don't understand that a red stop sign means stop."

In one memorable incident, Carmel even found herself banging the roof of a car with her sign after a driver went through the crossing while she was in the middle of the road.

"He wasn't paying attention and knew he was in the wrong, but I did get a bit of a telling off for that from my boss," she laughed.

Despite the occasional challenge, Carmel is proud of the contribution she has made.

"I feel like I've helped keep children safe.

I rarely take time off apart from when I had to go to hospital. It's important to me to be there."

More than anything, it's the relationships she has built that stand out.

"You don't know what's happened before a child leaves home.

If I can help start their day positively or turn their morning around, then that's a win."

As news of her retirement spread last week, it's clear the feeling is mutual.

"One little girl told me I was leaving tomorrow and started crying.

Another said I'm the 'best lollipop lady ever'," Carmel said with a smile.

Cowes Primary School Principal Rodney McKenzie said, "Carmel will be missed by all and we are very appreciative of the care and commitment she has shown to our school community".

The school community gathered on Thursday morning to pay tribute to Carmel and thank her for her years of dedicated service, with the students forming a guard of honour as she took her final walk out of the school.